~~Ending an Affair Support~~
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~~Ending an Affair Support~~
| Thu, 11-04-2004 - 5:34am |
Here it is, I'm in a maze somehow unable to get out. A dream that became reality. He has me trapped. You know how it makes ya feel when his presence appears for those who know what I mean? Well, I just can't get the words out,"good-bye."
Here my situation, the man I desires
, Dreamed of, finally became real, he also felt the same way. Which I never knew. Now, I have to say "good-bye" how you say it? When you crave for more?? I kiss him, but now he tells me one night of lusty sex and we can get over our passion for one another. It all started 5yrs ago when I wanted was to have one day for a kiss. Now, it became true! Wake me up because I still think IM dreaming~! I can't risk my family life. He says, no relationship just a partner, for sexual passion. I'm not married, just have BF for 8yrs. Now what!>? Our lust for one another carries extreme passion. Are bodies calls one another. Last week, I spoke to him, I was getting into the conversation of saying good-bye, but those words didn't come out, only a kiss was added to my lips. Sealed away what I was going to say. HELP me in crisis. IM a sinner. I never, had so much WANT! Anyone????????????????????? ADvice???????????????????
HOW TO I END AN AFFAIR?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
Here my situation, the man I desires
, Dreamed of, finally became real, he also felt the same way. Which I never knew. Now, I have to say "good-bye" how you say it? When you crave for more?? I kiss him, but now he tells me one night of lusty sex and we can get over our passion for one another. It all started 5yrs ago when I wanted was to have one day for a kiss. Now, it became true! Wake me up because I still think IM dreaming~! I can't risk my family life. He says, no relationship just a partner, for sexual passion. I'm not married, just have BF for 8yrs. Now what!>? Our lust for one another carries extreme passion. Are bodies calls one another. Last week, I spoke to him, I was getting into the conversation of saying good-bye, but those words didn't come out, only a kiss was added to my lips. Sealed away what I was going to say. HELP me in crisis. IM a sinner. I never, had so much WANT! Anyone????????????????????? ADvice???????????????????
HOW TO I END AN AFFAIR?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

I did the "one last time" routine with a few of my affair partners. It was an appropriate end for those affairs.
I've also done the "cold turkey" "this is crazy, i can't do this anymore, good-bye" type endings for some of my affairs.
And last but not least, the mutually agreed upon yet without one final blow-out sex time endings. Those occurred the most.
You have to decide which way works for you.
And know going into the conversation/sex time/whatever that when you leave your affair is over.
Done.
Finito.
Or you will go right back into it, putting your hand, heart and head into the meatgrinder again chewing yourself up.
A difficult decision, yet you know it must be done.
You need your sanity back.
Make the conscious choice to do so and follow through.........
It's the, "Ending an Affair." DAY! Yeah, I knew it would come sooner or later. I do got some bad news, and good news, something help me make the decision a little easier.
Yesterday, I picked up my father and brought him to my home, Well, my father is like best friends with my other. Yeah, I do believe, they make best of friends. Anyway, my other always tells my dad he wants hang out with him at his place, since my dad lives alone in a big place. It had came to me like, Wow, that's sweet he wats to get close r to me.
BUT, Last night, my dad told not to tell anyone but that my other told him that he was seeing someone else, I thought my dad knew that the other was me, but it was not me! My other may have been referring to someone else. So I kept mouth shut, and continue to listen to his conversation. My dad said,G, which is my other, wanted to bring to 2 girls to his house one night, one for my dad and one for himself! I was like WHAT!? My dad knows nothing that I'm seeing this other. I was totally shock!!!! My dad says, that he cheating with his wife my heart dropped, I thought my dad knew something, but he didn't. It was all in my mind there another mistress in my others life is that some sh&%^T,? some besides his wife and me! I felt like I was at>>>> freaking Jerry Springer! Then, I think myself, can't that other mistress still be me be, and that maybe. he wants to admit to my dad he seeing me! I don't know, I'm confused & in tears.
They can't be another mistress when he always home other then with me! Or is that other mistress me? This is freaking bizarre.. Should I ask him? Or keep my mouth shut?? Anyways, that's the bad news. I feel as thou I was being used and I'm not that only secret mistress in his life that he wants so bad. I know I craved that attention. AHHHHHHHHH. Well, now, it made my "good-bye" an easier shot, BUT what if that other mistress is me? Wouldn't that be sweet? Help me you guys, PLEASE! Give me some sort of advice, if you come along this post, help a sister out on this> "Ending an Affair Support." I can't deal with this on my own. I have to say good-bye today. I will keep you updated!!! Please, stay tone to catch my tears...........................<<<<<<<<
What part of me needs this man, so that I can feel good about myself?
Address that and you are golden.
Posie
You gave me a very difficult question to answer. I'm not sure what you mean, but I will say, gosh, I can't answer that, as of yet. I'm not sure. Give me time to think about this one. My tears are falling as I write. I'm not sure what to say. Please, bare with me. I'm having a difficult time this morning. I have to face this lover with "goodbye" he hasn't even called me. Every friday he does! Something not right. I don't want to call him and look as if im looking for him. He just left as I looked out the window, he stays home on fridays and I stay home working on building websites. I can't even work this korning right, keep looking out my window! I get back with you.