Eventually - HE GOES AWAY!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-19-2003
Eventually - HE GOES AWAY!
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Tue, 10-12-2004 - 12:52am
6 years ago and as early as 4 months ago, nobody on this planet could have convinced me that MM could ever (or would ever) GO AWAY. As everyone here, I believed my relationship was very special, very committed for the rest of our lives, very deep and most importantly, different from all others!

3 months ago, and for ONE reason only... HE IS MARRIED... I concluded it had to end!

All it took to REALLY end it..........NO CONTACT FROM ME!

Oh sure, he emailed me a couple of times with his same old, update of his career issues and updates of HIS family and life in general... as much as I wanted to - I did NOT REPLY!

AMAZING! A 6 year relationship without a good-bye!

What happened to our very special, very committed, very deep and very different relationship?

I now know that it was NOT what I thought it was! And, I'm OK with it because my inner peace feels better then all those 6 years of lies and deceit all put together!

Start your NO CONTACT......stick to it at ALL COST and your MM will also GO AWAY!



iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Tue, 10-12-2004 - 10:25am
Bumping up
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-05-2003
Tue, 10-12-2004 - 10:52am
Care,

I have done that also. The NC rule is so important to get on with our lives. Its hard on some days but SO, SO much worth it. Thanks for being here and letting us know were not alone. SOUL

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-02-2004
Tue, 10-12-2004 - 11:31am
**my inner peace feels better then all those 6 years of lies and deceit all put together!**

Congratulations. YOU DID IT! You have successfully completed the "THIS IS HELL BUT I WILL NOT QUIT QUITTING HIM" course. I am very proud of you. The moment I was able to release that last drop of "affair gungadine", I also felt such tremendous inner peace that I was actually overwhelmed by it. I've embraced it ever since.



~True~

 

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2004
Tue, 10-12-2004 - 6:58pm
Your post made me so sad

6 years.

How sad but true

I wish it wasn't true

anyway--I think he'll come back--but just for more A Hope you can be strong then

Good for you for having the courage to end it