Fallingtopieces

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Registered: 01-18-2005
Fallingtopieces
Thu, 01-20-2005 - 6:12pm
Thanks for your reply. You hit the nail on the head with the emotionally troubled version of my EX-MM. He is definitely emotionally troubled. He always gives me mixed messages. I really think this is from his experience with two bad marriages. I also believe that he really wants to love but is afraid because of his past relationships. I do know him pretty well. I know his second divorce "burned" him very badly. It really hurt him and I totally understand. He spent 8 years with this woman and raised her 4 kids as his own and then one day she takes it all and leaves and he is left with nothing. The kids don't even come to visit him. It hurt him very deeply. Anyway, maybe it is good that I did not end up with him. He really needs some therapy. He will never get any better until he has had therapy. Thanks again for your reply.