Fatal Attraction...

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Fatal Attraction...
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Tue, 06-29-2010 - 8:07pm

NC since Dec. 9th 2009
No Contact = No New Hurts
Silence is Golden; Silence is Dignified; Silence speaks volumes.

Remember: Out of sight, out of mind.




Edited 7/1/2010 2:39 am ET by llostagain

NC since Dec. 9th 2009

No Contact = No N

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Registered: 02-02-2010
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 8:09pm

Do you have any of this documented so you can protect yourself?

Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
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Registered: 11-22-2009
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 8:12pm

 NC since Dec. 9th 2009
No Contact = No New Hurts
Silence is Golden; Silence is Dignified; Silence speaks volumes.

Remember: Out of sight, out of mind.




Edited 7/1/2010 2:39 am ET by llostagain

NC since Dec. 9th 2009

No Contact = No N

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Registered: 11-22-2009
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 8:14pm

NC since Dec. 9th 2009
No Contact = No New Hurts
Silence is Golden; Silence is Dignified; Silence speaks volumes.

Remember: Out of sight, out of mind.




Edited 7/1/2010 2:40 am ET by llostagain

NC since Dec. 9th 2009

No Contact = No N

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Registered: 01-18-2010
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 10:27pm

Lost,

FINALLY, FINALLY, FINALLY!!!! CHANGE THE DANG NUMBER. I have been telling u for weeks and months.
It is you holding on and it is only making you feel worse. Its like a strange way that u hold on. You are still in this, although not directly. See, no backlash, just happy you finally made this decision.

Really sorry u r going thru this. I know u been thru a lot lately. 3 things I know for sure. First, if all u say is true and I am getting all the information, what he is doing is not freedom of speech, its called harassment. Who told you this? BTW private numbers can be traced. All you need is a subpoena by the police. At the very least you need to file some sort of report. An order of protection. If its been continuous.

Second, the likelihood of you getting sued is slim to none, so go ahead and change that number, no more excuses. If anyone, they would sue your former employer so do not let that be your new excuse for not changing ur number. Retaliation should not be ur reason to not let this all go. Besides, he can sue you anyway, even if you do not change your number. So change it, no law against that. And the lawyer he will be paing will cost lots of money. So try to stop worrying about the unknown. You simply can not control what he or they do. End those thoughts. Just like when u were a newbie. All those rules still apply. FOCUS ON YOU. F'em. U have bigger fish to fry. Like getting another job, ur continued work on getting over the A.

Sorry about ur job. Work on you getting urself together.

Luvin

Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 11-22-2009
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 11:27pm

NC since Dec. 9th 2009
No Contact = No New Hurts
Silence is Golden; Silence is Dignified; Silence speaks volumes.Remember: Out of sight, out of mind.

Edited 6/29/2010 11:29 pm ET by llostagain




Edited 7/1/2010 2:40 am ET by llostagain

NC since Dec. 9th 2009

No Contact = No N

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Registered: 05-18-2007
Wed, 06-30-2010 - 12:07am

Hi there Lost. Thanks for the update, I was wondering how you are. Glad to hear you are changing your number. All you can do is start filling a file folder. Put the screenpics, dates and exact times each threat occurs(ed). Write the time of each blocked call.


I firmly believe in you "reap what you sow". Sooner or later this will happen to him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Wed, 06-30-2010 - 12:20am

NC since Dec. 9th 2009
No Contact = No New Hurts
Silence is Golden; Silence is Dignified; Silence speaks volumes.

Remember: Out of sight, out of mind.




Edited 7/1/2010 2:41 am ET by llostagain

NC since Dec. 9th 2009

No Contact = No N

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Registered: 05-18-2007
Wed, 06-30-2010 - 12:32am

I'm ok. It's been a bitter sweet day work wise. I'll have a lot of time on my hands till September (I work with kids).


I think we all make wrong decisions at some point and do reap the rewards of it. What separates us from your xap is that we stop and take a look at what we do and make changes for the better. It`s never too late in life to choose better :) I think you will come out of this stronger.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Wed, 06-30-2010 - 12:52am

NC since Dec. 9th 2009
No Contact = No New Hurts
Silence is Golden; Silence is Dignified; Silence speaks volumes.

Remember: Out of sight, out of mind.




Edited 7/1/2010 2:41 am ET by llostagain

NC since Dec. 9th 2009

No Contact = No N

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Registered: 05-18-2007
Wed, 06-30-2010 - 1:10am

Bitter sweet cause I am happy to be off for a couple months, but will miss the students :(


We all make stupid mistakes, I've made enough too. It's hard for me to take my own advice and pick myself up and walk towards something better :)

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