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| Wed, 10-20-2010 - 1:14pm |
Hi all,
It has taken me days to get the courage up to write this.
| Wed, 10-20-2010 - 1:14pm |
Hi all,
It has taken me days to get the courage up to write this.
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"Many of life's failures are men who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up."
Wow! Thank you! Your post REALLY resonated with me. The vicious cycle has been a part of my life for all these years. Dammit, I DID go NC for 45 days and started feeling better. Much better. Then I caved thinking magically that he'd come to his senses! OMG.
Yes, my MM, with his sex abuse background, is so stilted from those events and it terrifies him to even TALK about possibly divorcing his wife and leaving his teenagers in turmoil. I really think in my case my M was also a sex addict--and do I want to take that on? NO! He will never leave his family due to FEAR. I could go on and on about that but it doesn"t solve MY issues.
I and going to cut this man out and go NC and will make it my GOAL if it takes until I'm 100. No more hell. I am DONE playing therapist to a weak man.
THANK YOU for the empowerment today!!!!!!!!!!
P.s. as I sit here typing this I am staring at my cell phone--it's tempting me and I will NOT text him anymore. DONE.
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Hello and welcome back!
You are in the right place, that is for sure!
Melinda,
GREAAAAAAAAAAAT point!!!!
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