"Feel Goods" and "Feel Bads"

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Registered: 12-07-2009
"Feel Goods" and "Feel Bads"
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Wed, 03-10-2010 - 10:30am

While all A's are really the same (deceitful, false and destructive) the motives for becomming involved may differ among us all. As so many have posted in EAS, part of the healing process involves analyzing why we got involved in the A in the first place. I think everyone would agree that the "Feel Goods" are what initially hooked us and the "Feel Bads" helped us realize we needed to get out.


I'm curious to know what some of your "Feel Goods" were and what your "Feel Bads" were/are. I think if we can identify the "Feel Goods" then we can work on finding healthier substitutes to achieve those same good feelings.


For me, the "Feel Goods" were knowing how much he desired me,

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Registered: 08-06-2007
Wed, 03-10-2010 - 4:42pm

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Bingo Alice !! That's it in a nutshell.


In the beginning of my affair, I felt completely smothered in attention from xAP and obviously, that is what I went looking for. In the end, even though I wanted the affair over, I still

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