Feeling bad lately

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-04-2009
Feeling bad lately
2
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 12:27pm

Hello all -


I haven't been on the board in a little while - I was feeling like maybe I needed to start moving forward and that continuing to read here was actually holding me back.

NC since October 2, 2009.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2009
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 12:46pm

((((((HUGS))))))


I really dont think 2 1/2 months is long enough to grieve over the loss of anything important to us. I dont know your whole story ..i will go back and try to aquaint myself with you but i for one think that 2 1/2 months is GREAT progress but not nearly enought time to be over it :( I am 26 days NC and it feels like it happpend only this morning..in fact the memories and pain and things that pop into my head at the silliest moments are SOOOO frustrating! I ache for him...then hate him...read and read and read....and still the pain breaks thru all my efforts. I have allocated a whole year to my healing...and i hope that its enough. i not only loved my xap with all my soul..but made him my whole universe. He also had an unhealthy hold on me and manipulated my emotions

"Women can fake orgasms but men can fake entire relationships" -Sharon Stone
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 3:20pm

(((Gal))


Well, IMO, you are doing great. 2.5 months is awesome but let me just say, not long enough to "be over it already."

   ~Iddy~