feeling down need help

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Registered: 07-30-2004
feeling down need help
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Sat, 11-06-2004 - 7:41am
im feeling down this morning. i have been in NC since last thursday.

i checked for him yesterday but he wasnt on he wasnt oven logged on. so i couldnt stop wondering where he was.

there are 2 more weeks before his wedding. i do want to talk to him before that. i know its dumb but i cant let go.

i am really trying to redirect my thoughts each time but its hard.


thanks for listening

upsidedown

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Registered: 07-20-2004
Sat, 11-06-2004 - 10:56am
I'm not in any position to give advice, since I'm only 24 hours into NC, but from what I've heard, and from past experiences, I do know that NC is the best way to go. If you can be strong, try not to talk to him. I know it probably feels like you need to, maybe for your last bit of closure, but I think it will only be a step backwards in your healing. Talking to him one more time isn't going to stop him from getting married, so you will still be in the same position you're in now. I know it's hard!!! I'm going through it right now. If only I could take my own advice.....
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Registered: 09-16-2004
Sun, 11-07-2004 - 5:38pm
Hi Ups,

I am sorry you are feeling down, remember what you told me last week, BE STRONG YOU CAN DO IT. Well I am going to tell you the same, I am here for you, vent we all know it helps.

Hugs,

Ladybug