Feeling good now days

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Registered: 03-04-2005
Feeling good now days
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Thu, 05-05-2005 - 9:59pm
Hi everyone its been awhile since I posted here. Have had NC with MM for about 2 months now and slowly but surely things are getting better. I will admit that sometimes he crosses my mind and I have to remind myself that I ended it for good reasons. I think honestly its the communication(long talks and the friendship) I miss the most. Things with my H are going much better and I feel so relieved that there are no more lies to friends and family. I just wanted to say hi and say thanks for always listening. Take care everyone.
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Registered: 04-06-2003
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 10:04pm

Always..

Thanks for your post. I am only a few days (attempting) NC and it is nice to here there may be light at the end of this tunnel for me.

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Registered: 04-04-2005
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 10:26pm

Always

You sound so good, it's NICE to here it. Thanks for taking the time to drop in and encourage people.

Glad to here things are good with Hubby.

God bless

Free

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Registered: 03-24-2005
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 4:55am

Always,
I'm happy for you, and hang in there. It's good to hear from someone who is about half-month ahead of me as far as NC. Been NC for 6 weeks now (not my choice) and even if I see his name pop up on IM, I don't have those feelings of longing anymore and the urge to click on his name. I started to delete all e-mails, removed his e-mail address, and still taking baby steps in deleting him from my buddy list. I know I'll come to that... in time. I figured he imposed the NC and I have enough pride to stick to my guns, too. I deserve better.

Thank you for being an inspiration. Stay happy.

illbfine

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Registered: 03-30-2004
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 7:28am
thank you for your post.. makes things seem possible.. im on week 3 only but seems like forever when u speak to some one every day . i think for me its that he ended it suddenly with not waring that makes it hard to deal with .....i cant imagine after such a short time that it could be that way .. but its good to know its possible.. im hoping that for myself... take care......
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Registered: 03-13-2004
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 11:33am

WAM,

u r not alone, May 8 will be 4 weeks on me having no contact with OW, its killing me inside and yes i miss her very much, all the feelings are still there and i still hope that one day she will contact me

but i cannot control what she does, i can only control what i do so i do what i can to make myself busy, i call friends, concentrate on work( this is hard for me to do), read, exercise, clean the house, do some gardening , whatever i can to keep my busy

it takes time to heal, im waiting for that also, im waiting for the time when it wont hurt anymore to think of her, for sure i wont forget OW but i hope soon i can remember her and be happy and not be hurt

i wish you well and all the posters in this board, i can feel all the pain we are all feeling

have a nice weekend all,
max

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Registered: 03-30-2004
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 11:55am
thanks max..
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 12:26pm
Always- Glad to hear you are doing well! Hugs to you and congratulations for getting this far. I know it's like milestones with each day. I am nearing the end of the first full month of NC..This board is like my "AA meeting" for the EMA lol.
Wishing you continued success.