FEELING STRONGER ...YOU CAN TOO

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Registered: 04-22-2004
FEELING STRONGER ...YOU CAN TOO
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Sat, 07-17-2004 - 8:37pm
Just remember, They only call when THEY WANT , THEY ONLY ARE AFFECTIONATE WHEN THEY WANT (some) !! AND so On and so on and so on !!! I am getting over my MM just by taking care of me first and reminding myself as I put me and my DKids and DH first, that I am hotter than his W and by every day getting even HOTTER !!!! He puts her first and SO I am putting him last ! If he loved me like he said , he would have been with me along time ago . I have finally seen the light !! Hallaluhah !!!! It feels good girls , to be OVER his spell .. YOU CAN DO IT !!!!
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Registered: 07-12-2004
Thu, 07-22-2004 - 7:19pm
Congratulations!! I hope some day that I will be able to end it. I know that my MM loves me and I love him so much. I know that I need to end my M first and heal before I can jump into another relationship. If he ends his M and I end mine, then we maybe we can start dating. But I think him leaving his W is highly unlikely, because like me, he has stayed married because of his kids. But I am now realizing, I need to move on and take care of me. Easier said than Done!!!!
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Registered: 01-02-2004
Fri, 07-23-2004 - 8:24am
Way to go RCD!!!!! That feeling of strength will grow each and every day! You should be proud of yourself that you are doing so well! Keep up the good work! :)
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Registered: 05-02-2004
Fri, 07-23-2004 - 8:32am
Congratulations on your new life. We are both success stories and I hope the ladies reading this will see that "Ah Ha!" light and embrace it. Such a great feeling to be free again.

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Registered: 03-30-2003
Tue, 07-27-2004 - 4:52pm
I wish I felt an ounce like you did! I have just decided to end it and I am feeling so confused. I know I have to. MM is not a bad person but this is insane and he is only giving when he wants. The last straw was when I did ask for reassurance..I know pathetic that I even had to ask but when I did he acted like I was an imposition. After 2 years I was like this is what we have come to...

I just want to get over the first hump and not feel like I can't get through the next hour...