Feeling, um, lost.

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Registered: 08-25-2010
Feeling, um, lost.
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Fri, 01-14-2011 - 1:56pm

So here I am 4 days to tweenerville and I'm numb.

You guys have been with me along the way as I broke NC not once but twice - both within days of reaching the goal of tweenerville.

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Registered: 08-25-2010
Sat, 01-15-2011 - 11:07am
Sunshine - I wouldn't commend him for anything. He chose to run away when I asked for my divorce - from east coast to Cali. He hasn't talked to his kids until this month and ONLY because I called him because my oldest was wanting to talk to him. She felt since he had CHOSEN to be absent, that he didn't want to talk to her anymore. I'm not commending him at all. He currently has NO PLANS to come see his kids unless "I" buy him a plane ticket, or CHOOSE to send my kids out there - so no. I DO know they need him. I DO send him an email once a week to update him on what is going on in their lives so that he CAN have a clue, tho he chooses over and over to NOT.

HE moved away. AFTER he told my girls he was going to stay here. HE CHOSE that.

But thanks.
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Registered: 07-17-2004
Sun, 01-16-2011 - 1:04am

Hi Lolly,

My xh and I lived in the same city during and after our separation and divorce.

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