Feelings

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Registered: 01-15-2009
Feelings
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Sun, 05-23-2010 - 12:17pm

I had a rough couple of weeks with my xmm-boss

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Registered: 04-20-2009
In reply to: gullable88
Sun, 05-23-2010 - 1:54pm
hey, G girl-
When boss crosses over to xAP mode, you have NO 'obligation' to respond.
k?
xoxo
Dee
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Registered: 04-15-2010
In reply to: gullable88
Sun, 05-23-2010 - 2:21pm

Hello Gullable,

I loved your 'mind' message to your xMM (-:

It says it all. I also agree with Dee - when he crosses that line, you are under NO OBLIGATION to respond. I am sure he isn't emailing his other employees to ask how they are doing on the weekend. If you get flack for it, just utter the words 'sexual harassment'.

My best,

TU.

LC/NC since April 14, 2010
LC/NC since April 14, 2010

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
— Maya Angelou
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Registered: 03-29-2009
In reply to: gullable88
Sun, 05-23-2010 - 3:28pm

"from henceforth..."
i love your words! am copying your telepathic letter to my email account so that i can look back at this wonderful sentiment ;)
my feelings for my xap? subsiding daily, they are. NC really is the most healing, strengthening thing. when i get a little mushy or weak, i come hear and read, and it helps the feelings of sadness or loneliness pass. you know what i tell myself? i tell myself that it's okay if i'm still sad sometimes--it's alot better than being said almost continually when i was lost in the A fog.
thanks for the message of strength!
lillie

silence is eloquent, silence is dignified, silence is heard. ...
silence is eloquent, silence is dignified, silence is heard. ...
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Registered: 01-18-2010
In reply to: gullable88
Sun, 05-23-2010 - 4:34pm

U do not respond to him. Boss or no boss, he is crossing the line. U r in LC, no work, NC.

My feelings for exAp are all over the place. I don't want him. I am relieved he is gone. I do wonder about him from time to time. I know he thinks of me. I feel sorry for him. He is a big fake in every aspect of his life. He suffers from really low self esteem. He tries to act confident and secure. But he is a little boy who thinks very little of himself. So I leave him to be dealt with my her...that is n always was her job.

I am good.

Oh n do not respond to any more emails...

Luvin

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 02-02-2010
In reply to: gullable88
Mon, 05-24-2010 - 10:10am

Gullable- I agree with the others- you have no obligation to respond, and in fact, should not. But I do like your telepathic message.


Lillie- I love this: "i tell myself that it's okay if i'm still sad sometimes--it's alot better than being said almost continually when i was lost in the A fog." I remind myself of this a lot. Inside the A is endless pain... on this road to recovery, there is a light at the end of the

Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/