Fell off the wagon :(
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| Sun, 06-27-2010 - 7:00pm |
I was doing pretty good, almost 3 1/2 weeks of NC and then fell off the wagon. I found out he (or his wife) took him off FB. We weren't FB friends because his wife found out before, but I could see part of his FB page because of friends of friends. Last week though I blocked him on FB since I read that NC also meant not looking at FB and not just communicating.
However I learned he took himself off FB and feel kind of bad about that. I did check FB and he is no longer there. There hasn't been any communication with him (texts,emails or phone) but have had to deal with his wife on the phone and in person by answering questions, but that hasn't been for over a week now.
How long does the depression stage last? I am trying so hard not to think of him and trying to keep the 'anger' thoughts there rather than the missing him or what I supposedly lost in the relationship.
I did keep myself busy this week with my girls who just got out of school and my part time job which provided a lot more hours this week. Still feel empty because A consumed the last two years so it was busy juggling it with my family, H, and four kids and two part time jobs. Now, I'm trying to fill a loss of time.
Well, thanks for listening.

I too find I have too much free time now... time I need filled with
When Dday hit, one of the first things my H did was make me remove XAP from being a FB friend.
Moving,
I wouldn't consider looking at his FB page as falling off of the wagon. Maybe a bump in the road where you lost your balance but you self corrected, so do not fret over it.
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For as long as you let it and it depends on how serious it is. If you are still functioning by going to work and spending time with family, then more than likely it's a mild case of depression or just
~Iddy~