"I honestly believe that I am one of the EASers who hooked up with someone who was not unhappy at home, but used that line with me to his advantage. I have never felt so foolish."
Me too.
And my first attempt at no contact he even said 'that' to me in an email. After all the put downs about her (room-mates, only co-parents BS), he has the lack of respect and care for me to say: and do you really think I would leave my not-so-unhappy marriage?
I had actually NEVER even asked him to do that, NEVER. But he said it anyway. I'm crying just remembering how little that made me feel - how totally worthless. I guess he reconsidered when I didn't return back, and he told her he was leaving, oh wait, but he changed his mind again then.
He did an awesome job of helping me to sabotage my M though, including a drunk apology to my H (while H and I were still together) for sleeping with me, while we were at a BBQ - and his wife was there too (although not present during the disclosure).
I am deeply mortified that this wasn't the last thing I ever allowed him to say to me, and to my H, and instead went back for more. How sick was I?
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"I honestly believe that I am one of the EASers who hooked up with someone who was not unhappy at home, but used that line with me to his advantage. I have never felt so foolish."
Me too.
And my first attempt at no contact he even said 'that' to me in an email. After all the put downs about her (room-mates, only co-parents BS), he has the lack of respect and care for me to say: and do you really think I would leave my not-so-unhappy marriage?
I had actually NEVER even asked him to do that, NEVER. But he said it anyway. I'm crying just remembering how little that made me feel - how totally worthless. I guess he reconsidered when I didn't return back, and he told her he was leaving, oh wait, but he changed his mind again then.
He did an awesome job of helping me to sabotage my M though, including a drunk apology to my H (while H and I were still together) for sleeping with me, while we were at a BBQ - and his wife was there too (although not present during the disclosure).
I am deeply mortified that this wasn't the last thing I ever allowed him to say to me, and to my H, and instead went back for more. How sick was I?
TU.
"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
— Maya Angelou
My answer?
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