Finally... and thanks x

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Registered: 12-29-2008
Finally... and thanks x
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Thu, 11-25-2010 - 5:50am

Hello All,

I havent posted for a while, I have been busy with life etc;

I am very well, I am well and truely over my other man. I dont think about him, i dont face book stalk him, I dont do anything about him. It took many months (and 4 yrs in total) but I realised this man wasnt in love with me, nor me him. I wasnt there to save him! I had got so lost in the fantasy I couldnt see the real world around me.

After we stopped contact, I really tried hard to concentrate on my family and ME, to work out what was wrong with me.

My huby and I went on holiday together and we had a great time. I spent the whole 2 weeks talking, laughing and remembering why I married him... My head is so much better. It is hard to try and live with one person when you thik you want to be with another, You arent true to yourself, him or your family.

I feel the difference inside me, my head, my heart, my whole being.. so I thought I would let you all know.

and thanks to all of you who posted to me when I needed it, I am very grateful x

Sunbeam2008 in engalnd where it is snowing xx

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 9:33am

Hey, SB, thanks for dropping by and giving us an update. I am so happy to hear that you are doing well, and that XAP is now a distant memory. Snowing in England? Yikes. We haven't had any yet and as a matter of fact, I woke up to rain pounding on my windows. Not the usual Thanksgiving weather I am used to, but who's complaining. :smileywink:

Keep being good to that man you M, and it will come back to you tenfold.

Love and hugs,

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2010
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 9:41am

Hi Sunbeam,

I am a newbie on here.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 9:49am

Yah, Sunbeam!!! Thank you so much for sharing this uplifting news with us.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2010
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 9:53am

Hi Sunbeam,

Thank you for your inspiring post to us newbies!