Finally got up the nerve.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2004
Finally got up the nerve.
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Tue, 06-01-2004 - 8:02am
I am new to this side of the boards. I usually post on my affair support. After long consideration I realized that my EMA wasn't going anywhere and my M was and is in danger. I have been with MM for over a year and was nervous about breaking it off. I always new he was way to possesive but it was here that I realized just how out of control the situation was. Lets just hope when he calls that I am strong enough to not get myself caught up in the moment. I feel kinda bad about the way things ended. I told him I had no interest in being his friend or anything else. Was that mean to say? I am sure I will be back posting here and looking for comfort. You have all inspired me through your post. Thanks from the bottom of my heart.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Tue, 06-01-2004 - 9:28pm
HI Shorty

No you were not mean a clean break that you make stick is the most kind way of doing it and easier for both of you in the long run.

Attempting the friends thing in most cases just leads to falling back in to the affair and more breakups and pain for all, so for everyones sake hold your ground.

Life is about the decisions we make, you have made a good one be proud.

Free