First time here, need serious support
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First time here, need serious support
| Thu, 01-27-2005 - 10:45pm |
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Edited 1/29/2005 2:06 am ET ET by meltonqueen
Edited 1/29/2005 2:06 am ET ET by meltonqueen
| Thu, 01-27-2005 - 10:45pm |
MQ
Sorry to have to tell you this but your going to be a hurting for a while to come BUT you will get over it and move on. Your best friend is TOTAL NO CONTACT, forget closure it's mostly a myth in these things.
It is GOOD that you chose to end it thats going to help you alot so don't waffle and lose that advantage it's a major emotional gift to yourself.
Your XMM sounds pretty typical of CHEATING MARRIED MEN, once caught there true colors start to show and mostly the color is YELLOW, they run like rabbits to cover there butts.
The tears will stop your hurt will fade and you will move on in time COUNT ON IT.
IF/WHEN he tris to get things going again my advice is to tell him not to call you until he can put a DIVORCE DECREE in your hand, NO B/S NO DOUBLE TALK just the decree.
Welcome aboard
Free
Edited 1/29/2005 2:08 am ET ET by meltonqueen
Hugs.
Kell
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I totally agree with sundrian. He will try to find his way back in when the dust settles at home. Prepare yourself now. Be strong. Know you are not alone. Big hugs to you.
SS
Hi MQ,
I didn't want you to think I wasn't responding to your post when you were still in the A. I see that now you are on the EAS board, so I will support your decision here.
I am sort of in a limbo right now with my MM. I still don't know if I am in my A, or not. Either case, I don't wanna get into my A right now, since this is the wrong board for that. I am just here to support YOU and YOUR decision.
I know you are doing the right thing, but be prepared it will be VERY tough in the beginning, that is NC. I've been there before and it drove me crazy. But keep posting on this board. The members here are very nice, I've been on the EAS board in the past and I got all the support, however, since then I am back in my A, so I am on the other side right now.
Anyway. Hugs to you and stay strong. So far you got some great support here.
Take care,
PG :)
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