Fought the urge

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Fought the urge
Wed, 08-08-2012 - 8:33pm
Cheers all. As I'm reading through the library I have been so tempted to share what I'm reading and learning with the xAP. But I didn't. I can't help him heal, I have to focus on myself and my own healing. Big step for me. Today was 100% NC. It hurts but I made it. One day at a time. This board has been a lifesaver for me. Thanks all!
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Registered: 07-24-2005
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Thu, 08-09-2012 - 8:40am

Excellent!  Fighting the urges is a big step.  I know for me impulsive control was...okay ,even today sometimes is...not my strongest suit.  But didn't you feel empowered!

I had to laugh, when I think of some of the reading that I, too, wanted to share with JAM...okay, even today sometimes I want to share something with MH to point out HIS.....

But, like you said, it's about our own healing...our own self-betterment.  Everyone else is on their own...okay, unless they ask for it :smileyhappy:

Keep up the reading, continue to exercise impulse control...and you are on your way.