Found out H consulted divorce lawyer!

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Registered: 09-25-2009
Found out H consulted divorce lawyer!
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Thu, 10-08-2009 - 6:48pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2009
Thu, 10-08-2009 - 10:14pm

DMS,


How have you and your H dealt with the aftermath of the A?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2009
Fri, 10-09-2009 - 1:25pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2006
Fri, 10-09-2009 - 4:51pm

Oh Doubtingmyself, how awful for you.!

Onward and upward.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2009
Fri, 10-09-2009 - 6:42pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2009
Sat, 10-10-2009 - 9:35am

"I am the cheat, yet never lied, ever. As soon as I cheated I went to my H. Trust has always been an issue, I don't trust him. He has always trusted me until the A. Now what the heck is he doing making things worse?"

The above just doesn't make sense...blame shifting?...the deceit/lie began the moment your A did.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2006
Sat, 10-10-2009 - 12:52pm

All the things your H is doing (including changing your phone account password) is normal.

Onward and upward.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-06-2007
Sun, 10-11-2009 - 11:31am

doubting,


Just real quick here -


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2006
Sun, 10-11-2009 - 12:46pm

Since most states are "no fault", it doesn't matter if infidelity was involved in divorce cases.

Onward and upward.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2009
Sun, 10-11-2009 - 10:07pm

It depends on what state

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2009
Sun, 10-11-2009 - 10:35pm
Hey Doubt, if you want you can e-mail me thru my profile and I can help you out with some info. I've been in your shoes soo I know exactly what you are going thru.

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