Freaking Out

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Registered: 10-03-2004
Freaking Out
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Thu, 05-26-2005 - 12:35pm

I'm worried somehow that my former OM will blab about our affair to people I work with or even to DH!

We've stayed just friends, but I sense a coldness in his demeaner when I talk with him. I AM a worrywart, so maybe it's just me being paranoid.

Help!

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Registered: 04-04-2005
In reply to: cherry_2000
Thu, 05-26-2005 - 7:06pm

Cherry

More then likely he is not going to say anything, he could end up getting beatup if he did.

Sounds like it is time to let go of this "friendship" and let him drift away out of your life.

Free

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Registered: 10-03-2004
In reply to: cherry_2000
Fri, 05-27-2005 - 9:46am

Thanks. I'm calmer now.

Yes, I probably would beat him up if he blabs! LOL!

For sure, I've decided to let the friendship drift. Too many twists, turns, and issues with that one! And I feel like it's inhibiting me to fully re-connect with DH. DH and I have been doing great, but there are times I wistfully think of former OM. So it's time to cut that string. I guess NC is the only way really. Sad, in a way. He WAS a good friend before the affair.

It's been an experience, one I don't EVER want to repeat. The sneaking around, lying, and stress was just not worth it.

Soul-mate? BAH-HUMBUG!

Thanks Free.
Cherry