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Sun, 01-24-2010 - 8:37pm

Has _anyone_ here accomplished a successful platonic post-A friendship with xAP? Lurkers? Anyone who posts, but would _never_ admit to breaking NC?

Dee

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Registered: 04-20-2009
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 01-25-2010 - 11:49am

Hi, Everyone.

Clarity - I always appreciate your posts to me, always, and this time is no exception.

Everyone make really good points, too. I'd like to make clear that I am NOT considering pursuing a friendship with X, not at this time and probably not ever. I certainly would not do anything that would disrespect my H, or myself and my progress towards healing. I just happen to be at a stage where the thought of someday being very casually in touch with X is not completely squashed out of my stupid head. I'm sure it's a common mistake.

Btw, I AM still a newbie. Broke up on 11/2, I broke NC on 12/8 (I think) - so even if I'd not broken NC, I'd still be a newbie until 2/2.

Thanks, Everyone for your loving support and advice.
Dee

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Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 01-25-2010 - 12:44pm

Btw, I AM still a newbie. Broke up on 11/2, I broke NC on 12/8 (I think) - so even if I'd not broken NC, I'd still be a newbie until 2/2.


Now this made me chuckle out loud.


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Registered: 01-10-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 01-25-2010 - 12:45pm

Hi Dee,


I applaud your courage to ask the question.

Imustenjoypain!
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Registered: 04-20-2009
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 01-25-2010 - 12:49pm
Pht! I don't make the rules, I just follow them!!! uh, sort of. ahhahaha.
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Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 01-25-2010 - 1:01pm


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Registered: 04-20-2009
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 01-25-2010 - 1:06pm

If you and Iddy will pardon my very stupid, yet brief and much regretted breaking of NC, then TODAY would be my first day of tweenership! If you tweener me, I promise to shape up!
:)

xoxoxo

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Registered: 12-07-2009
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 01-25-2010 - 1:09pm

Pardon you? Sheesh....I'm only a CL, not the president.


Hmmm....."What say you, Clarity?" Yay or nay?


;-),

~ Iddy~

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 01-25-2010 - 1:43pm

I didn't make the rules either!


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Registered: 12-07-2009
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 01-25-2010 - 1:50pm

Well, now I'm totally confused although I remember that thread now, and I thought it was great for boosting morale around here.


So, Dee, I guess the jury is out unless Clarity feels you've reached some clarity.


LOL,

~ Iddy~

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: deeulta
Mon, 01-25-2010 - 2:10pm

Thanks a pantload


To be honest,