A Gentle Reminder- NC= No New Hurts

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Registered: 02-02-2010
A Gentle Reminder- NC= No New Hurts
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Wed, 06-02-2010 - 10:11am

I have been a little sporadic in my posting lately. I have been super busy at work and out of town last weekend. I am shocked to come back and find so many NC violations. I just wanted to post this gentle reminder of why it works.


1) It will help you to sort out your

Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
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Registered: 05-25-2010
Wed, 06-02-2010 - 11:25am

So true! Granted I am only 5 days out, but I am learning that NC is best. Numbers 1, 2, 4, 6, 8 and 10 are what NC is helping me with the most. I am still amazed at how much of this I rationalized. I am also amazed that for almost 3 years, I never wanted to admit that it truly was an affair.

Thanks Jane, your post is just another reminder that I am continuing on the right path!

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Wed, 06-02-2010 - 11:41am

Hi Jane,


A much needed

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Wed, 06-02-2010 - 11:48am
thanks for this, Jane.
I, too, am overwhelmed by the NC breaks and have had a difficult time trying to respond. You did an excellent job; thank goodness for you!
Dee
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Registered: 12-31-2009
Wed, 06-02-2010 - 2:09pm

Thank you, thank you for this reminder! Sometimes we get caught up in the moment (like I did yesterday) and forget something so simple, something that saved my life. I can always count on that good head of yours to straighten me out.

Thanks, Jane!

CSN

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Registered: 04-28-2010
Thu, 06-03-2010 - 8:49am

Thank you for the reminder Jane!

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Registered: 05-05-2010
Thu, 06-03-2010 - 9:56am

Hi Jane,


Thanks for taking the time to post these reminders.