A Gentle Reminder- NC= No New Hurts
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A Gentle Reminder- NC= No New Hurts
| Wed, 06-02-2010 - 10:11am |
I have been a little sporadic in my posting lately. I have been super busy at work and out of town last weekend. I am shocked to come back and find so many NC violations. I just wanted to post this gentle reminder of why it works.
1) It will help you to sort out your

So true! Granted I am only 5 days out, but I am learning that NC is best. Numbers 1, 2, 4, 6, 8 and 10 are what NC is helping me with the most. I am still amazed at how much of this I rationalized. I am also amazed that for almost 3 years, I never wanted to admit that it truly was an affair.
Thanks Jane, your post is just another reminder that I am continuing on the right path!
Hi Jane,
A much needed
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
I, too, am overwhelmed by the NC breaks and have had a difficult time trying to respond. You did an excellent job; thank goodness for you!
Dee
Thank you, thank you for this reminder! Sometimes we get caught up in the moment (like I did yesterday) and forget something so simple, something that saved my life. I can always count on that good head of yours to straighten me out.
Thanks, Jane!
CSN
Thank you for the reminder Jane!
Hi Jane,
Thanks for taking the time to post these reminders.