getting the MALE point of view on affair

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-27-2003
getting the MALE point of view on affair
21
Mon, 09-06-2004 - 7:41pm
who amongst us would LOVE to hear what the MM has to say about being in an affair??? his point of view,? his complaints? his hurts? his reasons why?? I for one, have heard my own MM give me his views on why he wanted to stop it. "tired of the ups and downs, tired of the fighting, tired of trying to please me, tired of the pressure from his wife AND me, tired of things not going anywhere, trying to get over the whole thing" "becoming too dependent on me" " loving me, but just cant leave the wife"...lol...: but my MM was and is a jerk, so I would love to hear from other men?? come on ladies, how do we get the MEN to say what they really really feel? and think? Might give us some real insight? to help us let go as easily as they do!!!

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-11-2004
Sat, 09-11-2004 - 1:32am

Thanks goingnuts for responding. Your post brought tears to my eyes. You answered my question without even trying to guess what was going through his mind- only he knows. I guess I just wanted some validation that he really did care and that it meant something to him as well.




Edited 2/16/2005 1:22 pm ET ET by iris304

Pages