Give me strength

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Registered: 08-16-2010
Give me strength
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Tue, 10-19-2010 - 3:02pm

I am back after 3 days of NC, XAP called and I answered.

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Registered: 01-18-2010
Tue, 10-19-2010 - 5:06pm

BSForever,

First, you need to change your screen name. Second, I can tell that you are troubled and upset as you are all over the place.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 09-28-2010
Tue, 10-19-2010 - 9:13pm
Can't top that response - just want to add that I too will be here for you when you decide to end the madness and focus on regaining a life that you can feel proud to be living.

TU.
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Registered: 10-14-2010
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 1:23am

MAN! THAT'S A MOUTHFUL!

THATS SOME GOOD STRONG TOUGH LOVE RIGHT THERE.

I HEARD IT:

TRUTH: Get this, love is not hidden and no matter the circumstance if someone really wants to be with you, they will be with you.

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 08-16-2010
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 1:54am

Luvinmeforever10,

Why do you suggest I change my screen name?

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Registered: 11-22-2009
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 7:49am

Bsforever,

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Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 08-10-2010
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 9:21am

I really don't want to hijack this thread and I'm so sorry for doing it, but TU!!!!!! I LOVE YOUR PICTURE!!!!

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Registered: 01-18-2010
Wed, 10-20-2010 - 6:18pm
Bs,
I assumed ur screen name meant bull shiz Forever. We are about positivity around here. We suggest postive screen names...we had a girl recently who changed her name from nolove4me to renewal4me. It's just about being positive.
DONT be embarrassed. No need. I have acted beyond slutty. I have done lots of things I am totally ashamed of. I am not her to ridicule or hurt you in anyway. I will be honest n caring n supportive but I will not coddle or enable you to continue in ur A path. U have to want this, otherwise it's all pointless. My support and the boards as a whole will fa on deaf ears if u want to continue in your A. The choice is yours.

MM actions never mirror there words. U need to read read read everything you can here. Start with the healing library. Words are just that-words! Now actions n behaviors, there lies the truth...whether you like it or not, there are what u need to be paying attention to. The acts. There have been hundreds...n I am not exaggerating, hundreds of women on this board who have said...but he said he loved me, said he was leaving his wife, all of those wonderful promises...those promises we want so badly to believe so so so badly...time passes n those same women are back n fed up with the BS...they realize they have been given false hope...they are tired of feeling confused n putting their lives on hold for someone else, they have had ENOUGH n make a decision to take their lives back...what's stopping you?
What makes u think you are not good enough to live a honest a true life with your H? What is really so special about ur MM that you refuse to let go of? What does he really provide or give you? How does he really treat you?
N you have not spent 6 years of ur lives together...not possible, u have had stolen moments here and there for 6 years but not 6 full fulfilling years...he spend most of his with his wife n kids...his real family. You have been a filler.
Now now, please do not take my words personally. I again, am not being hurtful, I realize it may come across that way. I am just being real. U may not like what I am saying but if u read like I have told you, you will see that I am speaking the truth...I have been on this board almost a year n have seen n heard quite a bit. Ur A is no different from the other thousands of women who have come n go from this board.
My story is ugly n pathetic, my end was horrific n I had some life altering effects from my A, things I am still recovering from. Get out ...do what's best for you. Put you first, he obviously isn't.
I look forward to hearing from you...
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida