Go back to lurking, pls. GRRRRR!
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| Tue, 03-16-2010 - 12:52pm |
Alrighty, Girls.
I'm off my meds, so brace up.
This is an ENDING board. Not an I'm-thinking-about-ending board.
You've been lurking for, um, _how_ long??? I've said this over and over....THERE IS NOTHING NEW UNDER THE SUN! What the heck are you doing while lurking; are you actually _reading_ the posts? Or are you just staring blankly at the gd monitor??? Go back one year, two years, three years.... over and over, the same stories, the same advice. Ok, so we all do it... we all get on this board and for the most part our first post is "how do I end this" cry, whine, confusion and despair abound! BUT, the second, third, fourth posts are NOT still "how do I end this?" and they are not supposed to be "I slipped, slipped, fell, slipped, and went back to the A." woe is me, why do I keep doing this..... and so on and so forth.
I am getting a little, ok, A LOT, irritated that lately I cannot come to my support board for uplifting and encouraging post. If y'all are not going to get on the stick and begin to get your shiz together, then go back to MAS or wherever. You girls KNOW what you have to do to be a part of this board, to begin to heal, to get your lives back on track --- SO DO IT! or, kindly, stop wasting everyone's time. This board has all the tools and support a person needs to end their A, but if this board is NOT helping you for some reason, why be on it?
I know I'm supposed to just ignore the posts that don't resonate with me -- I know I'm supposed to offer only loving encouragement --- Well, I'm stuck! I find only 1 out of 10 posts that resonate with me, and the only loving encouragement I can muster is to KICK SOME BUTT. If I had the patience of an angel on valium, like Iddy and the Vets, I'd probably keep my mouth shut. But, I've been here only four months and I've NEVER been good at filtering. I'm the loudmouth of the group; sorry if it offends, but I'm going to stand behind this rant because I think it's worth saying and my motivation is coming from the right place: I want healing for everyone on this board - I want the new-enders to get what they need to move forward.
sigh. I'm done.
Dee

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Oh Buddy, I know exactly how you feel.
Dear Kmg6,
Have you experienced hair loss or weight gain from zoloft?
Buddy,
I took Zoloft too, back in the day, and I actually lost weight while on it. Don't know about the hair problem but it didn't affect me. Heck, my hair is so thick I probably wouldn't have noticed anyway.
The best thing to do is ask your Doctor. Tell him what side affects you want to avoid and he will suggest the correct drug. Let me tell you, Zoloft took off the edge so when I ended the A, I never even shed one single tear. My emotions were
~Iddy~
No hair loss or weight gain.
thank you kmg6 and iddy.
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