Good Luck Lazy..and ALL of us this week!

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Registered: 06-28-2004
Good Luck Lazy..and ALL of us this week!
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Sun, 09-19-2004 - 4:13pm

Hay Lazy!
I just read your post about True's article and just wanted to wish you luck this week. WE CAN DO IT! I was just getting that sinking feeling realizing it's Sunday afternoon and I have to be around OM at work tomorrow. Then I read your post and felt less alone. Lets use this buddy system this week, k? That sinking Sunday feeling has become a reflex, but today I noticed it went away when I read your message and realized "OMG! I've thought less about him this weekend than I have in months!" I used to be terrified on Monday mornings, but I think this Monday I won't be! It'a a positive thing, moving on from him! I should embrace every strong day and look forward to making it through. WOohoo! It's going to be a good week!


Love you,


Lily


Love, Lily PG with #1 EDD 11/23 baby
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Registered: 03-30-2003
Sun, 09-19-2004 - 4:46pm
<>... LOL! I was experiencing that before I read the post! I always get/got that wondering if I'd get a Sun night email (not expected but always a surprise) or who email first come Mon Am. This weekend has been pretty good for me but I am still wondering when the next bomb will hit. Although in my mind things have ended (notice I say mind, not heart) MM and I have not formally established NC yet therefore there is a good chance I will be hearing from him. I like the buddy sytem though! I agree this is going to a good, well better week!

HUGS

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Registered: 06-28-2004
Sun, 09-19-2004 - 8:20pm

YAY, Bria!


It will be a good week. Let's not let them take another week from us! I know it's hard when NC isn't formally established. XOM and I work together, and until Friday I hadn't even talked to him to tell him to leave me alone. Still can't do NC because of work, but I am firm about no personal contact or contact in private. You can do it too. Keep reading the board and fortify yourself so when you do hear from him you'll be strong. You're sanity and peace are too important.


Yeah, I know that Monday morning email feeling too. :( I'm here for you!!


Love, Lily

Love, Lily PG with #1 EDD 11/23 baby