A good meeting w/my Old Therapist

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Registered: 07-25-2003
A good meeting w/my Old Therapist
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Wed, 05-05-2004 - 2:03pm
I have decided to go back into one-on-one therapy with my old T--that worked with last spring and summer as i entered into A. We had a good meeting this morning--and she agrees with much of the processing and work i have done.

I have no idea if xMM is a true narcissist, but it helps to think, when he was/is selfish, it wasn't about me, it's about him. I am not absolving responsiblity for the issues, but he only has/had time, when he needs something.

I did write him back about the business opportunity that has suddenly fallen in my lap. Of course, i didn't hear back: because you know why? IT'S NOT ABOUT HIM!

Insight feels good.

Clarice

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Registered: 03-05-2003
Wed, 05-05-2004 - 4:10pm
Good for you Clarice. It sounds like you had a really good session. My therapist always said that just because I was the married one, that I was not %100 percent to blame for all of my OM's misery or my H's for that matter. I have to take my share of responsibility but there is more to it than just me and it sounds like your therapist is saying the same sort of things. Kind of eases the guilt a little doesn't it? But nothing seems to take it away!!

Karry

Karry - - who is learning to embrace life on her own raising her miracle, Carley Paige