Good morning Sunny Soon! :)

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Good morning Sunny Soon! :)
Wed, 08-15-2012 - 6:01am

I just wanted to thank you so much for all your support. You, Clarity, and everyone else on here who has given me words of encouragement. Thank you!! Last night was another BIG temptation. xAP called me at work, good thing we have caller ID and I didn't pick up. Soooo tempted though! Then I was tempted to text him something alone the lines of "still love you" or "missing you". Yes I still love him, yes I still miss him, yes he might still love me, yes he might still miss me, but we are both STILL MARRIED, so what's the point?! NC= no new hurt. Day 19 of NC! :smileyhappy:

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Registered: 05-08-2012
Wed, 08-15-2012 - 7:00am


That is awesome!! Well done you! He will fish again so always be at the ready. So pleased you were able to not pick up. It really will get better. You are just giving yourself some space and time to be able to think things through more clearly and to be able to make good choices for all of you further down the line....

I still loved my XAP on day 17 now at day 97 not so much :smileyhappy:

So proud of you Healing - keep going!!!



Sunny Soon Xxx


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Registered: 07-24-2005
Wed, 08-15-2012 - 11:10am

Excellent HNW! 19 days is awesome!  And don't you feel so empowered by having practiced impulse control and having taken back your power...woot woot!

He'll possibly fish for a while, but as long as his hook comes up empty, he'll eventually stop.    

I love are you are thinking it all the way through to 'what's the point?"

I have to be honest, I'm glad you changed your name, but there is an itsy bitsy teeny weeny part of me that still has difficulty with the word 'hurt' incorporated into it...but I won't knit pick :smileywink:  

Keep up the good sound stronger every day.