Grieving

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2009
Grieving
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Thu, 11-19-2009 - 9:03am

I am just wondering how many of you feel that you need to grieve and morn the loss of xap before you can seem to move on with your marriage?


I am having real trouble feeling anything towards my husband because I am still upset over ending my affair.


It is now day 20 NC and still thinking about xap all the time. I hate it! I want these stupid thoughts to go away.


Thanks for listening again.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-15-2009
Fri, 11-20-2009 - 12:57pm

Hi All,


I was going to post my own thread, but figured a thread called 'Grieving' was perfect.

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Registered: 02-28-2009
Fri, 11-20-2009 - 7:13pm
I think everyone grieves for different reasons. I think for myself it has been for many different reasons.....yes part of it is for XMM but a lot of it is for my own marriage and self also. Many different aspects for me. For instance....I am grieving the connection that my husband and I had prior and the innocence and naivety that I had before. Does that make sense?

 

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