Gutted

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Registered: 10-24-2003
Gutted
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Wed, 12-17-2003 - 2:37pm
I accidently posted this on the EMA support board instead of here. Things ended with MM a week ago. I ended things because he never called or was on line after a while.

Received an email from MM today. The subject said: Do not delete-please read.

I should have deleted it. In it he said, "I'm sure you feel better by ending things, but it ended after we met in the hotel room. You see for me, it was all about the hunt. Guys don't need "friends" we have buddies we golf with, drink with, play cards with. Women serve one or two purposes, to have our kids, clean our houses, and for sex. Women outside of marriage are for hunting. Once they are bagged, the hunt is over and we move on. Our wives are too focused on being the perfect little wife to no whats going on. So we have the best of both worlds. Merry Christmas"

Yes, it was a spitful email, but it hurt like hell. I believe all the lies, how could I have been SO stupid? I must have been from seeking outside of marriage I didn't have; friendship and love.

Feeling like life isn't so grand about now.

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Registered: 03-30-2003
In reply to: life_is_grand
Thu, 12-18-2003 - 1:42pm
First of all let me say that Life IS Grand and don't let any man change that for you. This man obviously got his ego hurt. You were the stronger one and he didn't like it so he had to make his ego feel good by hurting you. Just like some people get off on hurting animals and children. It makes them feel better. He's a sick individual and he'll get his.

Thank you for sharing this with us all here. I know it must've been difficult and much easier just to keep it to yourself. It helps us all to remind ourselves that there are men out there like that and to steer clear from 'em as best we can. Sometimes women are so vulnerable and easy prey for men (dogs) like this. Thanks for sharing and remember, your LIFE IS GRAND!

Luvin

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Registered: 03-29-2003
In reply to: life_is_grand
Thu, 12-18-2003 - 2:34pm
Life_is_grand, my apologies! You certainly have met the lowest form of life calling himself a man!




Edited 12/18/2003 5:03:10 PM ET by 1american
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Registered: 07-27-2003
In reply to: life_is_grand
Thu, 12-18-2003 - 2:44pm
1american

Retreating from the shadows of lurking here to defend a friend...life has been posting on the My Affair board for a couple of months now. We all "over there" have heard her story from its start to its unfortunate finish.

She's always been quite calm and level-headed (really don't think this is some big "plot") -- I understand your paranoia, but I truly believe life is simply a classy lady who can calmy accept the circumstances of the end of her A.

Hang in there life!



 

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Registered: 03-29-2003
In reply to: life_is_grand
Thu, 12-18-2003 - 5:01pm
Thanks charlotte1203 and under these circumstances, I'll edit out my previous post with sincere apologies to life herself!
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Registered: 07-10-2003
In reply to: life_is_grand
Thu, 12-18-2003 - 11:05pm
So he is a sexual predator? I guess that's what he's saying. What a jerk.

Yuck.

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Registered: 10-12-2003
In reply to: life_is_grand
Sat, 12-20-2003 - 1:50am
I know how low you must feel. Believe me that past two days have been very crappy for me and some evil things have been said to me. It hurts like hell and even makes you react they way you shouldn't. Luckily people understand and support you who really love you. This actaully should make you feel good to see him for who he is and what you avoided. Now I know better then anyone that sounds good but you still feel like you got stabbed in the heart. The pain will pass ( or so I am hoping it will) and you do not have to put up with this crap from such and unworthy man ever again. Good riddance to your MM. His is scum like mine. Be strong.


Your life will be grand. Time!

Cali~

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