Had to see the ex AP today/ new it was coming but I made it here to tell :)
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Had to see the ex AP today/ new it was coming but I made it here to tell :)
| Fri, 10-29-2010 - 9:22pm |
Hi I had a rough moment tonight.
I was out and about in my neighborhood after work tonight

YAY!!! Good for you!
I AM SO DAMN PROUD OF YOU!!!!
and it's nothing to do w the interaction w xap.
i have to say this too YOU INSPIRE ME! This post of yours was REALLY inspiring!
(((Melinda))
<read and I saw myslef as having the right to say nothing, for the first time ever.>>
Bravo, girl, you did great! You know, sometimes we just have to think of our XAP as being dead. I know that sounds terrible, but not when you put it into perspective. You are so right when you say, "What is there to say anyway?" or "What's the point in saying hello?" There isn't any. You have to pretend they don't even exist anymore. God, I wish I could do that, but I have learned to see my XAP through different eyes, as if he *IS* that stranger on the street. It's not safe these days to be friendly to strangers anyway, so if you think of XAP as someone who is a threat, (and all xjam's are), avoiding and/or ignoring him is what needs to be done for your own safety. You are putting YOURSELF first now, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that when it comes to x-relationships.
I'm proud of you, honey.
((MEL))
You are amazing! I am so happy to see you claiming YOUR PERSONAL POWER. Walk tall, dignity and let the haters be haters. You're carving out your own future, now shying away from "owning it"!
So impressed!
TU.
To all of you from me,