A Happy Note

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A Happy Note
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Mon, 03-31-2003 - 2:50pm
I usually only seem to post when I'm having trouble, but this past week with all the support I received, I feel so good today! Had a nice quiet weekend with H and OM hardly entered my mind at all. I am healing! I will get past this need (addiction) for him. I am trying look at everything realisticly, not with blinders on!

Thank you all for your support ..... You are all wonderful women!!

K

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In reply to: raspberrykat
Mon, 03-31-2003 - 3:31pm
Woohoo...good for you. I too had a great evening out with my DH. We had a DATE and havent had a night out together in what ...I dunno I cant even remeber the last time. We went and saw David coppoerfield and then went and saw Jeffrey Gaines at local club - was a amazing evening. No intimacy or anything but hey it was a start and not a bad one. Gald to hear you had a nice evening as well and you know another thing I realized is that I am feeling alot more peaceful -less stress being out of the affair and feel myself smiling more.

well take care!!

Racy

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In reply to: raspberrykat
Mon, 03-31-2003 - 7:16pm
Good!! I'm glad to hear your smiling more!

Sometimes it just takes a little time .... and an open heart & mind. It also takes a while to get the "sex" thing back. My H & I are not connected sexually either, but I'll take it one day at a time .....

*hugs*

K

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In reply to: raspberrykat
Tue, 04-01-2003 - 9:14am
Good for you Kat!!! Thanks for posting such a positive post!! I am so glad you and H had a nice weekend together!! It is so nice to hear!!

Take Care,

Karry

Karry - - who is learning to embrace life on her own raising her miracle, Carley Paige

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Tue, 04-01-2003 - 12:53pm
Good for you Kat. I like to hear the positive side of things too. Gives the rest of the people who are down a little hope.

Casey

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Tue, 04-01-2003 - 3:00pm
I'm glad you're doing better. Me too! It's springtime where I live, the sun is shining and for the last week I've felt completely free of him. My H and I are doing great, going dancing twice a week, and life is so good.

Healing, yes. Truly moving on and getting on with life. I feel like I've been wearing blinders for the past two years and now they're off. The world looks pretty good!