Hard time letting go

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2003
Hard time letting go
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Sat, 06-12-2004 - 5:50pm
I just can't get over OM it has almost been a year in July .

I appear so needy vulnerable . It doesn't help when you have to work

with him on occasion . I saw him today at work and literaly begged him to

with me . First he sas yes for tomorrow and b4 I left wanted to confirm then

he sas NO !!!!!!!!!! I get home I called his cell he doesnt pick up when I call

I texted him 3 xs . He did call when I was sleeping and said he was very busy

that he will call me tomorrow what does that mean .

Beautiful day like this and I am home doing nothing feeling lonely and sad .

I am in a very unhappy marriage . Anyone know of any good divorce lawyers . I called a few today . I have NO idea how or what to do . Husband just sas leave !!

Anyone else in NJ - Holla back ........West Paterson here

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-02-2003
Mon, 06-14-2004 - 7:40am
Sorry to hear you're unhappy. I often found myself looking to MM to fill my needs of loneliness and unhappiness. The problem is... he didn't really fill them. It was just an illusion. I made him out to be much more than he really was.

Looking for new friends is a great idea. Maybe you could take up an activity.... Karate classes? A sewing class?

Is there any possibility of working on the marriage? If he's willing, maybe you could try dating each other again. You know, take DH out to dinner and dress up for him. Go to the movies and hold hands. It worked for me, but everyone's circumstances are different.