Have not been counting

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Have not been counting
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Wed, 04-28-2010 - 8:40am
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Wed, 04-28-2010 - 8:52am

Ok Alice- I am here to hold you accountable, because I know that you CAN do this. I believe in you. Do you believe in yourself? Have you had enough? Are you ready to get real? Then let's get to it. Day 2 NC. Tomorrow is day 3, and before you know it, you will be approaching the shores of tweenerville and I will be standing there waiting with my arms wide open.


Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
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Wed, 04-28-2010 - 10:49am

Sweet Alice,


Congrats on your Day 2 of NC.

BE the change that you want to see in the world! Life loves me and I love life! <3
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Wed, 04-28-2010 - 1:54pm

I'm going to post a thought and hope I don't get stoned to death.


Like you, Alice, I have had LC with xap. I've been strong for weeks at a time, lost strength, regained strength, lost it again.

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Wed, 04-28-2010 - 2:31pm

I agree with alwayst2 that we each have our own ways of recovering and healing.

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Wed, 04-28-2010 - 2:50pm

i also agree, there are all different ways to heal and to move on...and as long as we are all going for the same goal

~ life....

http://nomoreblues.wordpress.com/

Oh just leave me just get out of my head
'Cause I can't ta

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Wed, 04-28-2010 - 3:05pm

No stoning here.

BE the change that you want to see in the world! Life loves me and I love life! <3
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Wed, 04-28-2010 - 4:41pm

I can see what others are saying about the counting... and that is true in a way... counting the days without him- that kind of keeps him as a tenant in your head, but then the Brilliant and lovely New Season suggested that instead of counting the days of NC, I count down to Tweenerville... so at 20 days out of the Tweens that is what I started doing. And that changed things for me in my head. Although I do like to see the NC number growing and growing. But today, I am 90 days away from Super Tween :)


Hugs,


Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
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Wed, 04-28-2010 - 6:24pm

I guess I measure my steps forward instead of

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Wed, 04-28-2010 - 6:48pm
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Wed, 04-28-2010 - 7:04pm

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.