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| Thu, 03-25-2004 - 6:15pm |
Just out of curiosity.How many of your MM actually promised, swore up and down that he would leave, and then how long did all of that continue before you said enough is enough, I cant wait forever?I guess I just try to convince myself constantly that what I hear is the truth, but then years go by and here I sit still.Just wondering.Thanks
Emma

See my response #11 to When Did You Know It Was Time To Leave? Short answer, 6 yrs the first time and 15 mos the second.
Edited 3/25/2004 7:27 pm ET ET by lily022
If you check on the web for affair stats your going to learn that almost NO MM leave there wifes for the other woman, most of them are cakeman, they like to have there cake and eat it to.
F
All I know that is if you plan on telling him that you've had enough and your bailing be sure to follow through, cause the first time you don't they'll continue doing it to you over and over again. You have to be willing to risk losing him altogether if you put him in a situation where he must choose.
Clarice
So many women on here have been burned by guys giving them that line and stringing them along.
I'm not saying that for sure your MM won't leave, but you can't wait around forever either.
If I was you, I would set a realistic goal date for the event to happen or for him to take some real action towards it.
And if you don't see it happening, sorry to say, but at that point you're going to have to decide whether you want to remain on the hook with him or move on with your life, and find someone who is totally able to devote himself to you. Good luck honey
Dusty
Emma