HAZEL????? Are you just lurking?

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Registered: 02-02-2010
HAZEL????? Are you just lurking?
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Wed, 04-14-2010 - 4:42pm

Just wondering where you are... I miss your insight and your positive vibes. Hope you are doing well.

Hugs,

Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/

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Registered: 10-21-2009
Thu, 04-15-2010 - 6:31pm

Hazel, I don't remember, are you in therapy? I don't mean to sound harsh, but maybe you need more help than this board can provide, which is fine, we're all different. But one night stand to boost your self-esteem...come on, girl...that's like the worst thing you can do to your self-esteem.

XOXO
Gone

**Bloodied but unbowed**
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Registered: 02-02-2010
Thu, 04-15-2010 - 6:42pm

Oh Dearest Hazel-

When I posted this I was so hoping you had gained a new found understanding of yourself, your relationships and your M and were well on the way to healing. It makes my heart sad to read what you have put yourself through, but I am glad you came here to tell us. We can help you, but you need to start helping yourself. I know that you know this. I know I can't say anything you don't already know in your heart of hearts... but you are killing yourself, girl. You know what you need to do. Now, you need to do it... and we can help... but you might want to consider IC too (I can't remember if you are already seeing someone).

Now is the time to take a good, hard, honest look at yourself to get to the root of your problems or you will continue in this cycle. And I KNOW you don't want that. You have control over your happiness. You are not a victim. You are strong. You are beautiful. You are worth it. So bunker down. Put your boots back on. Get back on the horse... YOU CAN DO THIS, but you have to be willing to put in the hard work.

Hugs,

Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/

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