He couldn't even buy me a coffee, and...

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Registered: 04-08-2003
He couldn't even buy me a coffee, and...
Tue, 10-05-2004 - 12:23pm
Then I see he posted to a board me and exMM both frequent, insinuating that he's planning a surprise trip to Hawaii for his W.

This after he told me he couldn't afford to pay for the repairs after he damaged my car.

What a consummate fool I was. Boy did he ever play me well. Took me for a complete ride, emotionally and financially. "Oh I'm too poor to do anything." What a load. Even if he was, he clearly had money to spend...but not on me.

Its not like money is the issue...its the fact that he took and took and took from me and gave almost nothing back but sex. And I let him do it. And I can't believe I let him. I am, by nature, a generous and giving person...and he took advantage of that.

Talk about making someone cynical. What a wakeup call, huh ladies? At least it fuels the anger that I'm currently using to get over him. I am so tempted to call or email him and tell him what a louse he is...but what would that accomplish? It would give him the satisfaction of knowing I still think about him...and I want to give him NO such thing.

Yesterday was a bad day...but today I'm hoping to continue to focus on the good in my life.