He wants us to meet ......
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| Wed, 06-15-2005 - 9:57pm |
XMM called me yesterday at work. He asked me to please not hang up. He claims that he can't handle not being able to talk to me anymore. He told me that I am in his future and that I am a very special person in his life. I told him that I am not going to be a matter of convenience to him or be a F*** buddy. He states that maybe we can be "best friends". I told him I don't think so, cause I know he would tell me about who he was "with" and I did not want to hear that. He asked if we could meet in the next couple of days so he could get the t-shirt I had bought for him. I know............it's all a ploy to worm his way back into my heart. (There is no sex anymore). I think he is wanting to keep me on a string.
I CANNOT and am NOT going to meet him. I am not going to fall for this scheme.
How can he make, wanting to "meet for a minute" sound so easy. I guess it's the art of manipulation.
I have to stay strong!!!!!!!!!!

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You are to STRONG to SMART and way to good to put up with his manipulation and head games.
I suggest that you TRASH the t-shirt and if he asks about it again tell him so and that now he has no reason to ever call you again...GOODBYE.
I know I have said this 200 times but: THERE NEVER WAS OR WILL BE A REAL FRIENDSHIP ONCE YOU CROSS THAT LINE...you can not go back and any attempt to do so leads more often then not back to the affair or attempts to suck you back into it.....ongoing contact just keeps dragging you back to square one again and again so that you get to relive the pain of ENDING IT over and over again....NOW WOULD A REAL FIREND WANT TO DO THAT TO YOU: "YES/NO"
Hanging up on him sounds like a good idea.
JMHO
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Just sending you good thoughts to keep you strong.
You're doing the right thing!