The Healing Library is further down the page. The first section is General Discussion, then Single issues, Married issues. The section right under that says The Healing Library. You will find a ton of wonderful reading there. That's where you'll find your practical examples of things to keep yourself busy and your mind off of XAP when you are fighting with NC. Please remember that NC is a gift, not a punishment.
Hi Sweetgirl :)
The Healing Library is further down the page. The first section is General Discussion, then Single issues, Married issues. The section right under that says The Healing Library. You will find a ton of wonderful reading there. That's where you'll find your practical examples of things to keep yourself busy and your mind off of XAP when you are fighting with NC. Please remember that NC is a gift, not a punishment.
Bodhi
There are more, but quickly here are a few specific threads that really helped me:
When is enough, enough?
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlending&msg=24431.1&x=y
Tricks that might help:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlending&msg=27605.1&ctx=256
Wisdom and Insights:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlending&msg=25149.125&ctx=0
Wisdom and Insights II:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlending&msg=27889.1
Bodhi