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Registered: 04-30-2005
help
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Tue, 05-24-2005 - 1:11pm
It has been about 10 weeks with no contact and I just saw him downtown where I work. I know he saw me but he pretended he didn't. I am shaking so bad I can hardly type....I feel like I am going to break down. I thought I was doing better...guess not
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2003
In reply to: stupidnlov
Tue, 05-24-2005 - 2:02pm
Hang in there.... 10 weeks is really good. You owe it to yourself.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-04-2005
In reply to: stupidnlov
Tue, 05-24-2005 - 6:53pm

SNL

Stop getting down on yourself, I think your reaction is NORMAL, there was bound to be some tension and a burst of adrenaline at your first seeing him, it will get better and you will handle it better as time goes on...have a little faith in yourself.

Free

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2005
In reply to: stupidnlov
Tue, 05-24-2005 - 7:08pm
Free's right. It will get better with time. I have been NC for about two months. Unfortunately, I see my xOM in town ALL the time. The first few times I saw him, I got all worked up, shaking, adrenaline pumpin', everything you feel. It fades. I actually saw him on the road yesterday, pulled up next to him, beeped and waved. I could have ingnored him, but I actually felt nothing so I thought it would be OK. Guess what? I felt nothing. It was awesome! It will get better, as long as you keep NC.