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Registered: 12-09-2003
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Tue, 06-29-2004 - 11:43pm
I dated this guy for about a month and we decided to split on a mutual breakup. Two Days after we broke up his ex girlfriend came back into the picture. Then 2 days later they got married. Well since they have been married he has called me everyday and we have even met up of a couple of times. His marriage is miserable all they do is fight and he has even told me that he still cares about me and thinks he made a mistake he thought that being married to his ex is what he wanted. His wife has even called me a few times looking for advice telling me how unhappy she is. I dont know if i should just walk away and forget about it or continue talking to him.

































Edited 6/29/2004 11:46 pm ET ET by dupont5916

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Registered: 12-28-2003
In reply to: dupont5916
Wed, 06-30-2004 - 12:26am


Should you walk away, NO you should RUN away as fast as possible, do you really want this DRAMA in your life.

Question that comes to mind if he married her 4 days after your breakup, does it not seem likely he was cheating on you with her and now he wants to cheat on her with you, the Guy is playing you both, dump his A** and be glad to be rid of him and his poor wife.

JMHO

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Registered: 06-04-2004
In reply to: dupont5916
Wed, 06-30-2004 - 10:25am
I TOTALLY agree with you MFN. He's playing both of them. What saddens me the most is that these women allow this to happen even when they have it all spelled right out for them.


Fair