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| Mon, 06-28-2004 - 1:51pm |
Its only been a few days NC today. Didnt know that it
would be this hard but im trying to make it day by day.
The hardest part is not letting my kids and H see my
sadness. I work all day and seem to keep my mind of of
him but when I come home that seems to be the hardest
time when I have time to think of him. What do you do
at home to keep yourself from going crazy? I know that this
was the best for both of our families. Really do hope that
this gets easier.
would be this hard but im trying to make it day by day.
The hardest part is not letting my kids and H see my
sadness. I work all day and seem to keep my mind of of
him but when I come home that seems to be the hardest
time when I have time to think of him. What do you do
at home to keep yourself from going crazy? I know that this
was the best for both of our families. Really do hope that
this gets easier.

As in all other addiction withdrawls, ending the affair is most painful at the beginning.
The issues underneath the pain, i.e., those faults of your marriage that you used to justify your affair, are still looming out there.
The affair drug will wear off and the issues will still need to be addressed and settled.
Can you focus on what needs to be addressed in your marriage and then act on it?
Doing so will also affect your loss......
And open new doors oof opportunities to change your life to what you really want.
Good luck,
cl-nre