HELP!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2004
HELP!!!!
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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 2:12pm

OMG, Last week XAP reminded me about his son having tonsil surgery. And I told him to let me know how it goes. He just called from the hospital and then another phone. I didnt call back.


Now, I'm feeling so guilty again b/c he doesnt know I've decided to go NC and I dont want him to think I dont care about his son. Btw they are at the hospital and I dont live far from there. OOOOhh, help me not to contact him. I feel so bad.


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-15-2009
In reply to: caribu79
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 2:27pm

Hi Caribu,


Only you can stop yourself.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2006
In reply to: caribu79
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 2:48pm
You're creating drama caribu, stop it.
Onward and upward.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-25-2008
In reply to: caribu79
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 2:50pm

Caribu,


I don't post often but I am on this site all the time to stay in check.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2006
In reply to: caribu79
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 2:54pm

I know you feel bad, but I don't think you should. You've made the choice to go NC for good reason and that means you have to stick to that choice. Besides, you know there will always be things like this with his son that will suck you back in if you let it.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-03-2005
In reply to: caribu79
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 2:59pm

DONT breal NC. You do not owe him S, has he showed you the same courtesy.....come on, i am sure his son is fine. This is somehwat a ploy for him to get attn. You do not owe him a thing. sorry if this is harsh. Why do you care if you seem mean? I am sure he has been more than mean and demeaning to you at one point. its over, leave it there, breaking NC, even if only for his son will start things all over again, let it go and keep it moving....

and be harsh with me one day. i may be posting a similar story sometime soon, snap me into reality, i am a newbie and super vulnerable

hope you feel better