Help to block

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Registered: 11-02-2009
Help to block
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Fri, 02-26-2010 - 10:57pm
My best friend thought she was doing me a favor by mailing all of xaps things back to him. The thing was she did not put who it was from so naturally he is going to think it was me! I could kill her! The thing is I am sure you all remember his email to me to Do NOT attempt to contact me.... I so afraid of what or how he is going to respond. I have him blocked from my personal email but my work email just goes into a junk folder if I block him and I have to check that folder from time to time as sometimes my clients emails will end up there because it looks like spam. I am scared for 2 reasons, the first is that he has a horrible temper so I am not sure how he will take it when he thinks I did not listen to him. I don't think he will hurt me it's just that he can be very mean and hurtful with his words and I worried he will lash out. I am scared that if I see his name in my junkbox that I won't be able to resist opening it and it will be hurtful. I wish she had not done this but I know she was just trying to be a good friend. He does have a really bad temper so a part of me a small part of me is worried that maybe he would get violent with me. I am really worried. I am praying he will just ignore it. I really want these feelings about him to go away.
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Registered: 08-18-2008
Sat, 02-27-2010 - 12:34am

What is done is done and you cannot change it. Not sure how your friend would know where the items were or which items he gave you or even how she got access to them without you knowing. It sounds on the surface farfetched to me and very high-schoolish.


Either way the items are in route back to him and you cannot change that.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 01-18-2010
Sat, 02-27-2010 - 8:43am

E1,

So good to have you back, can not tell you how much I have missed your posts.

Jap,

As I read the opening of your post, I was like her "friend"....sounds suspect. Just a little FYI about the people (mostly women) around here. I am not saying that your friend did or not do it without your knowledge at all....I actually do not care. What you do need to know is that we are a pretty bright group of women, VETS have just about seen and heard it all. I been around enough to know what sounds a lil fishy....we can only help you if you are completely honest with us.

And whats done is done. You sweating it out now is pointless. You do not have to read anything he sends. Try to stop obsessing about him emailing you. He may not. N so what if he does, you can delete, delete, delete. I failed to do that as of recent and I can not tell you how much I wished I had.
Learn from my mistake...

I hope he does not respond and I hope you get your friend in check..

Luvin

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 11-02-2009
Mon, 03-01-2010 - 5:18pm

OK full disclosure and not something I am proud about, this shows how far I was willing to go for my A.