help find a thread please...

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help find a thread please...
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Mon, 12-28-2009 - 12:43am
Someone posted a comment, I believe it was a response to a thread created by I have no idea, but if someone can help me out. I just remember them saying how they exAP thinks he is in control, but his wife has him whipped...and that he jumps when she calls after he complains about he so...etc...
it was posted yesterday, the day after xmas, it was a response to someone else post, i just really liked what this person wrote...please resend it to me or post it here. if anyone remembers. i would appreciate it, I have looked but for the life of me could not find it. thx in advance to anyone who could help me out.
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Mon, 12-28-2009 - 1:13am

also, i need to find "reduced" i guess i am tired am probably been looking for things for way too long. i know one of the vets wrote Reduced...it is good and i need to read it, i want to find this more than the other one...thanks again gang.....its written in blue, i know that

Clarity? Iddy? it was one of you I believe

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Mon, 12-28-2009 - 2:21am

Cl-iddy posted it i think. I think this is the whole things. I think the end might have gotten cut off. I pasted it my email. this was really good.


REDUCED

Affairs are so exciting. Someone thinks you are really special, so much so, that he/she will not share you with anyone. He/she tells you how much you make him/her feel alive again, that his/her marriage is dead but they stay for
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Registered: 11-22-2009
Mon, 12-28-2009 - 2:39am

Hi Sienna,

Were you referring to one of my posts? Because my xAP's wife has him (excuse my french) by the balls and he does whatever she asks of him.

NC since Dec. 9th 2009

No Contact = No N

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Mon, 12-28-2009 - 7:05am

"Reduced" was in the "Why" thread and the last line is simply, "You have been reduced."

   ~Iddy~ 


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Mon, 12-28-2009 - 11:27am
thanks to all......
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Mon, 12-28-2009 - 11:48am

Iddy~


Love the post "REDUCED"....

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Registered: 03-03-2005
Mon, 12-28-2009 - 12:00pm
it probably was yours..if what i described sounds familiar, let me know or send it, i will know it, the minute i read it