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Help!!!!! He showed up!!!!!
| Thu, 02-04-2010 - 5:58pm |
I can't believe I am even typing this but here goes nothing.
| Thu, 02-04-2010 - 5:58pm |
I can't believe I am even typing this but here goes nothing.
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Excellent choice to move away kristin!
I will tell you the reason the urge to leave came about so suddenly. I live in a relatively quiet small city about an hour east of Dallas. In all the years I have been here I have had minor problems.....until the last month. There have been two gun incidents in the last month here. The first was a street over and happened during a party that
Whoa, I guess that's your sign!!!
You are being one smart lady kristin.
Thank you Energy.
I will say that I have definitely been one of those people that minimized the situation. He has been this way for seven years and yet I wasn't willing to accept that he would always be this way. I thought if I followed the rules and did what he said when he said that in time he would calm down.....but that never happened as you all already know. What really makes me sad is that I DID compromise my life for him for so long. I gave up friendships that he didn't approve of, I didn't go places he didn't approve of and if he did approve of a particular place I had a curfew (that one is particularly embarrassing considering I am a grown woman), I dressed and acted the way he saw fit and I missed out on opportunities that I secretly really wanted to pursue. That is no way to live regardless of who you are or what your situation is. I am glad I have finally realized that.....but man I wish it hadn't taken so long.
I know there are others out there who are in this type of situation and if nothing else I hope reading this helps them to see that this is no way to live whether it be
If he is watching the day we leave then I am sure he will notice. What is kind of good about it is that this is the time of year that we normally go
Kristin,
This sounds like a whole new start for you and your children. Very exciting!
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
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