Help! I need a wake up call.
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Help! I need a wake up call.
| Wed, 06-09-2010 - 7:55pm |
I should be ashamed of myself for still having feelings for AP and having a hard time ending it. I'm pregnant and I love DH very much but I can't seem to walk away from my A of two years. I thought the pregnancy was gonna help both of us stay away from each other and we haven't been successful at ending it.
AP is married too. We both have no intentions of leaving our spouses and kids.
Help! I need a wake up call. A is both emotional and physical, but mostly emotional now.
AP is married too. We both have no intentions of leaving our spouses and kids.
Help! I need a wake up call. A is both emotional and physical, but mostly emotional now.

Welcome to EAS.
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Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
WOW is all that i can say.. E1, that letter is amazing and renews my already steadfast determination to remain A free.
Mom, please know that your A HAS to end and you have to do it for you and your family. You will never be free from the constant drama and roller coaster of emotions until you do. End it now so you can savor these moments in your life, so you can really live in the moment with those that truly love you and would move mountains for you.
We will lead you if you will follow.
GMLB
MB,
You've received some powerful responses. I would welcome you to the board but really can't until we hear that you have officially ended your A. Now, of all times, should be about the beautiful gift you carry inside of you. My children are all grown but there are times I drift back to that special time when they were born, and I tear up with the joy those moments brought me. I wish the same for you.
An A is, by far, the most ugly of betrayals. They represent weakness, selfishness, and lack of self love. Becoming a mom is about strength, selflessness, and unconditional love. It's time to get your priorities straight and fine tune your perspective in life. Perhaps by saying that any man who
~Iddy~
Edited 6/10/2010 9:35 am ET by room_to_grow
Hi!
A wake-up call, huh??
Edited 6/10/2010 9:53 am ET by seekanend
Thank you so much for your posts and for making me feel welcome. My feelings haven't been that strong for xAP or should I say almost xAP since I found out I was pregnant. I know for sure that this is DH's baby because I was on the pill for a while and got pregnant right away with DH as soon as we started trying. The hard part is, we work in the same building and I see him everyday. Some days, my feelings seem stronger, some days they aren't as strong.
It's difficult... but reading the messages on this board helps a lot.
Thank you again.