help!!! I'm being harrassed

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-10-2002
help!!! I'm being harrassed
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Sun, 05-30-2004 - 2:14am
he just left another message on my machine-saying he wants to see me and is coming over to my room tonight. I know he will be in the neighborhood for one of his church meetings. I don't want to talk to him but maybe i should just face him once and for all and tell him once more I don't want to see him.. Should I have a male friend over here to support me. maybe just be in the lobby -not in my room I don't really want to be alone with him or have him in my room. Or should I just not be home and leave a copy of my final e-mail that he hasn't read yet repeating that once a again. I don't feel very cool about this.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Sun, 05-30-2004 - 10:46pm
HI

Way don't you go to his church meeting and tell him to go away for ever there, and if he does not get the point tell him were everyone can here you, I bet you don't have to if you make it clear his secret is going to be exposed in front of the congragation.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-10-2002
Sun, 05-30-2004 - 11:31pm
My other concern is the fact that he got abusive with the other woman who confronted him and then left the country--she is no longer useful to him. I still have to live here for another 9 months --sometimes I think I should just pretend to still be his friend a very busy friend but justs string him on and put up with the crap until I leave. Actaully that is what I've been doing for the last few months--until one more thing he has done that just made me sick. No that isn't the ansser either. Hmmmmm-yes go to church where he will most likey try to talk to me and tell him loudly---that sounds good. I just don't want his retaliation. thanks.