help me important please thanks

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Registered: 12-04-2003
help me important please thanks
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Mon, 01-12-2004 - 7:56pm
trying so hard to get over my special mm i know for 25 years.so much happen between us what suppose to think.tell me this if your mm takes you into his arms and holds you very tigth against his body and loves you.like minds did you know what girls their no way you love your daughter that way.he gave me they impression last new years when he with me he wanted me again.now acting like nothing has happen between us ugh and hurts so much.he knows he knows darn well he has been cheating with me all these years.my heart is so broken rigth now feel so sad and way he told me he love me not wya you tell your daughter you love them. thanks kimmy
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Registered: 09-19-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 10:49pm
Kim look for a therapist, you need to speak with someone who is a professional. These mixed up feelings have lingered for far too long.

Shy

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Registered: 12-04-2003
Tue, 01-13-2004 - 3:50pm
hi shy wondering have you every had affair or close friendship with a married man.like i have you would understand how im feeling.why does eveeryone think you just can egt over a close friendship with someone just like that.that why i came over here talk girls know what going through.what friend done to me was not right tyring to deal with best way i can.yes very strong women been through so much in my life.please understand ppl who come on here like to really hurt me.they don't get that really nice lady who cares about ppl who would do anything anyone.thanks
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Registered: 09-19-2003
Tue, 01-13-2004 - 9:11pm
Yes Kim I was involved with a married man myself, that was two years ago. I too am married. I broke things off, and have moved on with my life. I do think of him from time to time, this part of my life has made me stronger. I have worked on improving me and my marriage. I do not dwell on this part of my life. I come in here to read these posts just to remind myself of what I went throught with the hopes I never go through it again. I am not being mean here, Kim. Its just that you have all these feelings for a man you are no longer involved with and something that had happened years ago. You ask the same questions and seek some answer to which not one person has been able to help you. All I have done was suggest you look for some answers with a professional. They may be able to give you more guidence and health.

Shy

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Registered: 12-04-2003
Tue, 01-13-2004 - 9:32pm
hi shy thanks sweetie so you do understand how lm feeling.happy you able to moved on.but thing you have to understand is this man will always be in my life but different way.just wish told when younger he really didn't love me that way but never did.kept coming to me and wanting to love me.he thing is he just can't handle guilted over me now.when he and hius W were last news years for holidays at my home i told about X-SG guy i was with not anymore since abuse me look on his face said everything he wasn't happy about it.what suppose to do just site around wait for my man come want me again.right now shy really kind scare of men afraid getting hurt again.sg was big stuiped loca jerk he had great thing me and blew it.my mom dad very upset with him.i haven't told everything that between me and sg he hit me one time.ppl over domestic board have help me so much.thanks for you help hugs i know you were not trying to hurt me.some other ppl who love to taht been lying all this time about everything but i haven't all true.hugs kimmy
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Registered: 11-21-2003
Wed, 01-14-2004 - 8:00am
kim, ALL of us WISH our xmm had told us the truth years ago.

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