Help me PLEASE!!!
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Help me PLEASE!!!
| Tue, 07-27-2004 - 9:19am |
I have posted here before, and I tried to end the A many times. He keeps coming back. I really need to get out. He's taking me down in a spiral and I cannot stop. Please help!!! I know he's never going to leave. EVER!!! I don't know how I got here, I believed his lies. I don't want to answer the phone, but I do becuase I think that this may be the call where he says he left. I don't want to go on this way, because my friends are telling me he has changed me. I want out. But I cannot take myself out of this. I'm just not strong enough.

We are here to help you in anyway we can.
You have to start believing in YOU, you can do it, want to do, you will do it, time to start building your self-esteem back up.
You are better then this, it is time to end the USING AND ABUSING, you know he is a liar and has no pitty for anyone or he would stop hurting people to get his jollies.
If you can unplug your phone for a few hours, turn your cell off, go out for a walk do anything but to avoid taking his bait.
YOU ARE STRONG
Free
Distract yourself by going out, visiting friends, posting here. Do whatever you have to do to occupy yourself so that you are not sitting at home waiting for his call.
You CAN do this, just keep telling yourself that you CAN end this!
We are here for you!
((hugs))
Circe
Go to court and get a restrining order ASAP, when he violates that have him arrested, he will be given a pyhic test.
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http://www.ncvc.org/src/main.aspx?dbID=DB_State-byState_Statutes117
Here is another link to a page on the same site that is a printable Stalking Incident and Behavior log. It may help you to print it out and record any and all contacts that you have with this man. At the bottom of the page there also links to other sites that may be of some help to you:
http://www.ncvc.org/src/main.aspx?dbID=DB_Incident_and_Behavior_log160
Please keep us posted and let us know how you are doing.
((hugs))
Circe
Edited 7/27/2004 5:33 pm ET ET by icirce21
From the tone of your post, and from what you described, this was an unwanted invasion of your privacy, and you were desperately trying to *escape* from this man. From what you just wrote, the two of you are "in love" and you "understand" him.
I just don't understand how you can have feelings for someone who is obviously harrassing (and yes - STALKING) you to the point where you have had to change phone numbers and move.